Sandra Bullock is hesitant for divorce

By Kathy Esmeraldo at 11 April, at 13 : 19 PM

Sandra Bullock is hesitant to divorce her husband Jesse James and fearing that he will get his revenge by selling a story on her. Sandra was devastated by allegations that her husband cheated on her with a least four other women.

She told her friends their almost five years marriage is over, but was scared to call in her lawyers as she worried Jesse would make his revenge on her. A source said: ‘The main reason Sandra has not filed divorce papers yet is because she doesn’t want to trigger Jesse into attacking her publicly and revealing her secrets.

‘Sandra is one of the most private actresses in Hollywood. And the last thing she wants is Jesse out there talking about her and talking about her marriage. She’s been worried that if she drops divorce papers on him now he’ll want revenge and will try to harm her reputation. Jesse – who made a public apology to Sandra and admits he deserves ‘everything bad’ which may come from his ‘bad judgment’ – is currently now in rehab for treatment of sex addiction but is devoted in saving their marriage.

Sandra who avoids all of his pleas, the thought she does not want their divorce to be in public. A source added: ‘Sandra is a very private person and always has been. She keeps a close group of friends that keep her secrets. She doesn’t want an angry ex-husband revealing things she wants to keep private.

‘During the past several weeks she’s had several phone calls with Jesse and he’s pleaded with her to stay married. But he’s also grown angry when she wouldn’t agree. And that’s what has her worried and has frozen her into inaction. ‘She believes that Jesse would be so angry by divorce papers that he would destroy the privacy she’s fought so hard to maintain.’